The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no screen time at all (except video chatting with family) for children under 18–24 months. For children ages 2–5, the AAP recommends no more than 1 hour per day of high-quality programming watched together with a parent. For children 6 and older, consistent limits on screen time and the types of media are recommended, with screens not replacing sleep, physical activity, or social interaction.
We are all guilty of it…giving your child an iPad to get a small break during the day. Just how harmful is it? Keep reading for Spring Valley Pediatrics Dr. Jessica Long’s expert advice on how much (or how little) screen time is appropriate for our children.
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You are probably reading this on your phone, maybe catching a minute’s break during your baby’s afternoon nap or between answering emails. Texts, emails, adorable Instagram photos – there are plenty of reasons your phone is always within reach but what does it mean for your young child’s development?
We know that babies’ brains do a lot of growing and changing in the first years of life. From birth to two years old, a baby’s brain triples in size and is busy forming neural synapses (connections within the brain). Too little stimulation, as can happen to neglected children, causes the brain to under-develop. However, too much stimulation is also harmful to the maturing baby brain. Studies have shown that prolonged exposure to rapid image changes, like what is seen in children’s TV shows, during this critical period of brain development creates a mind that expects high levels of stimulation. This can lead to attention problems later in life; the more TV that is viewed before the age of 3, the more likely that child will have attention problems at age 7.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that, outside of video chatting with family, children under the age of 18 months have zero screen time. We know that children learn best through interacting with the people around them instead of with electronics. Exposing them to TV, tablets, and phones (including apps and shows that are meant to be educational) can actually cause children to speak later and use fewer words. Even having the TV on in the background, which many of us do when we are at home, can affect our baby’s language development. With the TV off, a parent speaks an average of 940 words per hour to a toddler. However, with background media on, the average is 170 words an hour, and important language tools such as facial expressions and body language are negatively affected.
So what is a busy parent, who deserves some down time scrolling through Facebook, to do? First, monitor your own use. When you are with your little one, put down your phone, turn off the TV, and give your child your undivided attention. Sing, read, and play with her. Make eye contact and use body language to communicate, all of which help her learn best.
Once your little one is 18-24 months old, the AAP gives the thumbs up to some screen time. Parents should choose high-quality programming and watch it with their child. Engaging your child in the viewing experience – asking questions, pointing things out, and helping him make connections to real life – make screen time more interactive.
I would be lying if I claimed to have never pulled out a tablet as a last resort on an airplane to calm a toddler throwing a tantrum. Every parent has been there, but do your best to avoid using screen time as an emotional pacifier. It’s important for your child to learn how to identify and handle strong emotions and to come up with activities to manage boredom or calm themselves down. The next time you are at a restaurant or in the doctor’s waiting room, let your child explore a new book, create a drawing with crayons, or play “I Spy” with you to pass the time instead of relying on a screen to keep her entertained. Added bonus – it gets you to put your electronics away, too, and I know I could benefit from some more unplugged time.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why does the AAP recommend no screens for babies under 2?
Under age 2, children learn best through face-to-face interaction, play, and exploration of the physical world. Screen-based media does not teach babies the same way. Studies show that babies learn words and concepts significantly better from real people than from video. Early heavy screen time has been associated with delays in language development and attention.
What about video chatting — does that count as screen time?
Video chatting is an exception to the “no screens under 18 months” guideline. Live video calls with grandparents or family members involve real back-and-forth interaction and are developmentally different from passive video watching. Face-to-face interaction — even through a screen — supports language and social development.
My toddler watches educational shows. Isn’t that okay?
“Educational” labeling is not regulated and does not guarantee developmental benefit. For children under 2, research shows very little learning transfers from video — even programming designed for babies. For children 2–5, co-viewing (watching together and talking about what you’re seeing) significantly improves any educational benefit.
How does excessive screen time affect children?
Research has linked high screen time in young children to: delays in language development and executive function, shorter sleep duration (especially screens near bedtime), reduced physical activity, attention difficulties, and displacement of social interaction and play. The effects are most significant in the youngest children.
My child has a tantrum when I turn off screens. What do I do?
Screen transitions are hard for children because screens are highly stimulating. Strategies that help: give a 5-minute warning before turning off; have a consistent stopping cue; immediately transition to something engaging; and establish clear, consistent rules around screen time from an early age. Consistency over time reduces the intensity of protests.
How much screen time is okay for school-age children?
The AAP does not set a specific hour limit for children over 6, but recommends that screens not displace sleep (8–10 hours for school-age), physical activity (1 hour daily), homework, or social interaction. Create “screen-free” zones (bedrooms, mealtimes) and times (the hour before bed) as part of a family media plan.



